Moving on

First, comes the want to move on. It's probably cause you've been sick of holding on to nothing. Then, comes the need to move on when you are pretty sure you've had enough of all the bullshit and heartache. It's when you've set the boundary. Enough is enough. It's time to let go. And set yourself free.. Thirdly, the actual part about moving on. At first, you know it's what you want and probably need at the moment. Then the unthinkable happened. You've had a change of heart. You're now stuck in a dilemma. Should I or shouldn't I not move on? Will I regret it? What if..? What if..? The actually part about moving on is the toughest stage. It requires a lot of mental strength. The most important part is to actually remind yourself that there's absolutely nothing to hold on to. It's over. Hey, nobody said it was easy. It may seem like you're self-destructing. Reminding yourself over and over again that nothing is ever going to happen. It hurts every single time. Of course it does, but with this hurt you would keep the fire burning. It will be burn in your mind. You'll be so scalded that you will always remember and remind yourself. Never again will I want to go through with this. Never again would I be a victim to this misery and mental torture. Never again.  Lastly, the fourth stage; Tabula Rasa. Which means clean slate. Now's the time to empower yourself. It's the time for new beginnings and adventures. You're free from the prison of your mind and its tortures of the past. It's now time to start anew and refreshed. No more holding back. It's time to fly away free without doubts and regrets.. 

Life

Well, life is complicated. What's new? It's just the way we choose to handle life situations. Believe it or not, we are always in full control on how we choose to handle situations. Be it how difficult or tragic life may seem to you, there's always a silver lining just on the other side of that dark cloud. When you come to think about it, what would life be without hardships? Imagine a life without one, trust me it's impossible. Look around, ask around, there's practically nobody out there who hasn't faced any obstacles in his or her life. If someone claims to have had it an easy way in life, he or she is just one of the biggest liars in life. No, there's nothing to be ashamed about having a phase in life when things just get too overwhelming for you. To succeed, you must be willing to fail first. Nobody is ever a failure in his or her life. It's just all in your head and how you perceive life as it is. Anyway, back to the topic. A life without hardships would simply make you unappreciative and oblivious to all the small little blessings God has given you. GOD IS GREAT. He'll never forsake you. He's always there watching over every single one of us. Has he ever once let your heart beat stop for even one minute before? No. He's there. He's always there for us. Even if you haven't gotten the thing you've so dearly wanted, always remember these two things: God doesn't give you something as he knows what's best for you & Whenever God takes away something from you, He will always return you with something even better. The reasons behind all these, we may or may not know for only He knows.. So just have faith and keep fueling the fighter spirit in you.. You're always loved. :)